善根暗长,恶损潜消——《菜根谭》

第三卷: (二十九)善根暗长,恶损潜消。 原文: 为善不见其益,如草里东瓜,自应暗长;为恶不见其损,如庭前春雪,当必潜消。 译文: 行善事表面上可能看不到会么好处,但就像一个长在草…

善根暗长,恶损潜消——《菜根谭》

第三卷:

(二十九)善根暗长,恶损潜消。

原文:

为善不见其益,如草里东瓜,自应暗长;为恶不见其损,如庭前春雪,当必潜消。

译文:

行善事表面上可能看不到会么好处,但就像一个长在草丛中东瓜,自然会在暗中一天天结果长大;作坏事的人,虽说表面上看不出有会么坏处,但就像春天院子里的积雪,只要阳光一照射自然就会融化消失。

个人见解:

读到这句话,谈的内容无非也是善与恶的问题。关于这一点,在之前的文章中也提到过。这篇文章算是一种补充。

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在之前的文章《心善而子孙盛,根固而枝叶荣》中,我提到“善有善报恶有恶报”,并不只是简单的因果关系。家庭对于人的成长还是重要的。毕竟,我们在小时候,有很大一部分时间都是和家人在一起的,而且人的模仿能力也很强。那么,家人特别是父母对我们的成长有着巨大的影响。他们的一言一行都在潜移默化的影响这我们。下面分享给大家一个故事。

一天,小明的父亲发现小明的手指被有些黄,怀疑小明在抽烟。便严肃地对小明说:“吸烟有害健康,特别是青年人,你应该戒掉他。”没想到小明有些不服气,俏皮地说:“那您吸烟就对身体好吗?”听罢!小明的父亲也没有生气,而是说,“你吸烟也有我的责任。问题已经摆在面前了,我责备也没有用。”于是,父亲当即与到与小明约定一起戒烟。一年之后,通过两人的监督和努力都成功戒烟了。

看了这个故事,我就想到很多父母批评孩子的事情。尽管我们不能总说孩子是无辜或者无知,但是父母对孩子身上的一些坏习惯也应该负一定的责任。毕竟,小孩子并不知道这个世界的是是非非。他们养成了一些习惯,并不觉得是一件坏事,而是觉得很酷或者其它的原因。这些都是需要父母做一个好的引导,而不是责备。不要总觉得小孩子不懂事。

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说到此,让我想到了表妹。她在小学四年级,成绩不是很好。有一次,她到城里的舅妈家玩。在农村呆惯了,自然会觉得城市比较新鲜、好玩。在回家的路上,舅妈就问她,在城里面好玩吗?她说:“好玩。”于是,舅妈就说:“如果以后想在城市生活,就要好好读书。”听到这句话,她不是很高兴。然后有些不耐烦地说:“我知道了,这句话妈妈都给我说了很多次了。”

很多时候,我们总觉得小孩子不懂事。其实,他们心里是知道的。作为大人,我们确实有义务去教育他们,但是我们也要注意到我们的教育方式。不要总是以一种居高临下的方式,这样会让小孩子有很大的压力。我们应该从人本身出发。作为自身来说,别人反复在你面前唠叨,你也会受不了。所以,人都是差不多的。

因此,在教育孩子的时候也要特别注意。我们不能总是以我们自己的思维去评判他们的行为,而要从他们的思维出发,去理解他们的行为。同时对他们的行为进行一些合适的引导。

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一个人的善恶与家庭教育有很大的关系。同时,这样的一种品质也会遗传下去。对于基因的遗传,我们可能并不陌生。但是对于品质的遗传,我们可能容易忽略。

其实,一个家族的品质就像作者所言,如长在草丛中东瓜,终有一天会结果长大。但这个果是有善有恶的,恶也并不会因为阳光的出现就如冬雪般消融。而这这种遗传也是很可怕的。因为这个社会多一个恶人就会对这个社会造成更多的伤害。

不过,在此我要澄清一个问题就是恶人家的孩子未必都恶,善人家的孩子未必都善,只是概率更大而已。毕竟,一个人的成长还有学校教育、社会教育以及自我教育等等。而这些也是影响孩子成长的重要因素。只是我们真的不能忽略家庭教育这种“遗传”。

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结语:很多时候,善与恶并没有明显的界限,而我们每个人也总是在善恶之间摇摆,只是我们会更倾向于某一方而已。

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